Suppose you are a man, what kind of things in a date do you think would make a lady feel you are a good guy?
First, I think you must wear neat clothes. Don’t wear strange clothes, even though you like it. If you wear strange clothes, maybe the girl will think you are a little too “out there”. It’s a very important thing to remember.
Second, don’t make the girl feel you are weak. She might think you’re a sissy. For example, when you walk along the street together, you must walk on the left hand side. It will make the girl feel she is safe and when there is a danger you will protect her. That’s why in traditional China male left female right.
Another example, you must carry all the heavy things for the girl. Then she will think you are very manly.
Third, you must be gentle. For example, you must arrive earlier than the girl and always be punctual. If you have your own car, when you stop the car, you must help the girl open the door. When you have dinner you must pull out her chair before she sits down. These are the basic things you must do.
Fourth, you must always think about what the girl needs. You must know whether she is thirsty or hungry and then you must buy things quickly to keep her satisfied. She will feel you are considerate.
All these things are very important for a man to date. But, if you are a girl, what do you think you must know?
For example, if you are fat, you’d better dress in clothing of the same color. Wear light colors inside and dark colors outside. Also remember, the color black will make you look thinner.
White is a color that’s very easy to match with other colors. A yellow jacket and white pants are a good combination.
If the color is red, you need to know which red blouse goes well with blue jeans. But you must care about the proportion of red and blue in the outfit so the outfit is balanced.
Blue is the easiest color to match with other colors. Blue will make you look thinner.
If the color is beige. You must know beige is easy to match with black or white. It will make you look more fashionable.
If the color of your dress is black, don’t use pink lipstick, deep red is the best.